Let me just start by saying I have wanted to do this forever. I have so many things I want to express, however never found the correct forum. So I now say " Hello world here I am".
I am a forty something woman who has been in and out of the Swinger Lifestyle for the better part of my adult life. I have had both amazing experiences and horrible ones, but all have been learning experiences and I would like to use my firsthand knowledge with other people. I am not sure what I have been doing over the last 20 yrs would qualify as the "text book" swinger, however I am positive it is as least on the fringe. I have always found it interesting that society; although they find it very appalling, has accepted cheating men as standard practice but cheating women are sluts, or a couple who has an open marriage is disgusting. It seems if the woman in the relationship is the one getting laid that society has a complete fit. In society men are sexual and women who are sexual are sluts, whores, and home wreckers. Not a fair comparison in my book. I have flirted, joked, teased, and yes, had sex with many men in the last twenty years and I am none of the above. I am simply a woman who appreciates all men and any wonderful qualities they possess. For the women reading this thinking that women like me want their husbands or boyfriends, let me set the record straight. I do not. I have been married for 23 yrs to the same man and he is the only one I love. I will however show them what it is like to be with a woman who is completely sexually uninhibited and very rarely says no to any reasonable offer. Bottom-line: sex is fun! Now on to all of you men in the life style. If you are attached (ei. married, girlfriend, live-in, living with your baby's momma) and you want to play, be smart, handle your business. Women like me do not want texts, phone calls, or e-mails form the women you are not being straight with. Either be honest with them or be more careful about covering your tracks. Now with all of that being said, I want to say that this blog will be many things. One will basically be swinging for dummies. It will also serve as my own little Penthouse Forum, because sometimes the story is just to juicy not to share or I need the anonymous confession.